Let's say that you would have to choose: on one side there would be an event so important, so vital, that if you would not be part of it, your entire family would cut ties with you, and will completely erase the memories they have with you. On the other side, your absolute best friend has thenworst cancer there is. He is in hospital, in his final hours, and his only wish is to see you in front of him, so that he could die next to a very important person.
Both of these events happen in the same time.
Don't question their logic.
What you choose?