I'd say almost everything can be conveyed both correctly and incorrectly. But most stereotypical tropes fall into the negative for me.
Agreed, I'm pretty freaking sick of these types of characters, often times I feel writers thinks this makes a character seem cool and when they're actually just a pretentious dirtbag.
This also has been irritating me a lot. SAO is the obvious example here, but not for wrong reasons whatsoever. Nothing defines Kirito other than the fact that he's apparently "really amazing" and that all the girls like him.
I find these two the worst at the moment because to me what it really shows me is that the writer did not care about making characters that iniatw any kind of emotion in the reader/watcher.