@meepinater I don’t mean this in a negative way, but I feel a disconnect between what you’re typing and what you mean by it. That is to say, this all sounds like a rehearsal, the type one would do in their mind to force themselves to think everything has gotten better immediately.
I say this out of friendly love. Be honest with yourself! Even if only a small amount of hurt exists, it is better to accept it than to pretend it isn’t there. It’s by accepting your true feelings at the moment that you can properly heal, and that’s what I want for you.
I think you still have some feelings, but admitting that would make being around her awkward. That’s okay. Don’t push yourself too hard to automatically accept your new role as her friend. Think about whether it’s really healthy for you to be around her right now.
I could be misreading all of this of course. We INFJs can be a bit too sure of ourselves sometimes, so forgive me if I’ve missed the mark in my presumptuous assertions.