I personally think that the following things are cute in a girl to me:
-Slightly baggy clothes
That’s it.
Of course, I’m not saying I like people solely on what they wear, but if some girl I happen to like is wearing a sweater that’s a little bit baggy, I’m gonna think it’s super cute.
Well, probably the biggest necessity in my case would be if the girl is into other girls to begin with, for obvious reasons. As far as taste goes, I’d be interested in a partner who not only accepts but is also able to enjoy many of the same nerdy things I do, but also would perhaps be more able to keep practical and help me remember to pull my weight as well.
As for who I may ultimately end up with, though, I’m not overly worried about whether or not she’ll fit that profile, and I’m generally trying to keep expectations to a minimum. Of course, I think I want to get through College before I really start searching, though, so it isn’t something that really keeps me up at night quite yet.
One of the things that we need to remember is that once you find that perfect someone, your list of requirements needs to be thrown out of the window as you try to become what he/she wants you to be.
In the case of guys, we need to treat girls like goddesses
Of course, that would mean that, while getting their attention, you are not behaving in the way you usually do and are giving a false representation of yourself.
I think you misunderstand me. That’s not to say that we don’t behave like ourselves, it’s to say that we treat them with as much care and love as we can give.