See, this is the attitude I'm talking about. You can be successful at anything, you just need to refuse to acknowledge failure. Put on a whole lot of bravado, in everything you do. If other guys can be successful at life, why not you? My grandmother, she's Japanese, always told me that you can accomplish anything. If you fail, it just means you need to work even harder.
I'm not saying you should keep trying to get this one girl. What I am saying is that you get what you work for. Life is about exchange.
Oh I know that. What I'm saying is that your attitude towards the rejection suggests that if she had said yes, the relationship still wouldn't have been healthy. You also need to keep an optimistic open mind. You should still communicate with her like you usually do. Act like nothing happened. That is, unless you were really awkward when you asked her out. That's when you cut your losses and run away from your problems. Hahaha