i didnt do anything for valentines day
its a cheap and fake kinda holiday imo
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Well, now that Iāve experienced being in a ārelationshipā, all I can say is that you might as well not be in one. One con about relationships is the gossip that goes around about you. And itās not good gossip. The worst part is how everyone talks about it, and its completely annoying. Most people I know have been in a relationship with someone else for about a year and then they just break up, move on, and forget about the past. No one on this very planet is perfect, so I donāt recommend being in a relationship.
You sound a bit bitter.
Iām 20, almost a year ago I broke up with my ex. We mutually wanted marriage, but we werenāt quite ready. Sparing the details, the break tore me apart more than I wouldāve admitted. However, I took it to be a learning experience, so I donāt make the same mistakes later. All the work, driving 45 minutes both ways multiple times a week, it was all worth it. It was worth it for both the good times then and the wisdom gained now.
As long as you donāt do anything stupid that could cause a surprise life-change, the good times now and the wisdom later makes it worthwhile.
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Took the words right out of my mouth.
@Coolio, I hope that you are able to look back on this in the not too distant future and see that relationships arenāt all bad. Perhaps you were just with the wrong person.
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Thatā¦ is a lot of salt. First off, youāve gotta be pretty self-conscious and insecure to let ābackground noiseā and rumors bother you. People are always going to do that, with or without a relationship. Also, yes, people break up. Yes, nobody is perfect. Despite that a lot of people look past their differences and live together until the day they die, happy to be in each otherās company. Iāve had exes that have used me. Iāve had ones that took every opprotunity they could to belittle me. I have some that I still love to this day, but one thing or another didnāt work out so we ended it mutually for the sake of eachother. Despite all of that I bear no grudge towards the prospect of a future relationship, and I know that just as much as people can be cruel, they can also be full of love. I know that while Iāve met a lot of dishonest and sneaky backstabbing women, there are also people out there capable of not cheating and staying commited. If I can stay commited to a fault, then itās only logical that someone else out there can do the same.
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Iām imagining this whole thing in Ichigoās voice and itās great.
Jokes aside, what @Ranaki_Pakewa and @Tarvaax said are spot on and you should heed their advice.
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Dude same.
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I used to have a hot girlfriend in high school. Then we graduated, went to separate colleges, and havenāt spoken since. Itās really funny how she has no idea I have ~1K followers on flickr and a reputation online. Havenāt had a gf since, mostly because I donāt have time for one.
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Well, I have tried once when I was in 6th grade. Since then I have been somewhat lonely. I would never be homosexual mainly because of the way others act. Nothing against homosexuals though. I am male and have never been in a relationship.
Iām in loads of relationships. I got family ones. Friend ones. Ect. Not really a love bird but meh.
I love birds. Birds are wonderful.
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No theyāre not Birds are Airbourne jerks
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Theyāre dinosaurs that fly! Practically Wyverns! Though they are pretty vainā¦ no different than any of my ex-girlfriends honestly. Self-obsessed and terribly vicious, though very beautiful to the eyes.
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For the guys out there who are trying too hard to find a girl.
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āFeed her poetryā
And end up trying to create an artificial sun which results in her death.
Then octopus shenanigans.
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I just finished rewatching the movieā¦
Donāt ask how I recorded it on vhs.
I love birds too.
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There is a very simple way to win a soulmate.
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Walk into a heavily populated area
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wear an extra pair of pants on your head. (this one is critically important beyond importance)
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Find a random person and begin shouting their heresy and try to convert them to Talos.
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if that does not attract a proper date than switch between various Aedra and Daedra as whim demands
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if that doesnāt work try the Tribunal
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if you get this far try Lorkhan
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at this point you are beyond hope and you should die in a hole.
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What about Ebonarm?
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Shhhh, heās non canon and heretical.
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Yāknow what, Iāve figured it out. I know how to get a girlfriend/boyfriend.
Step 1: Get a van and a car
Step 2: Get two pairs of new clothes and mask to disguise yourself
Step 3: Find a happy couple with one of the two being what youāre looking for, but they can only be dating
Step 4: Jump 'em and steal the being you desire
Step 5: Use the van for a getaway
Step 6: Shake the cops since theyāll most likely come after you and switch vehicles to the car (and the other clothes for that matter)
Step 7: Escape and make sure they didnāt see you in the car (and donāt forget to take your desired GF/BF with you in it, but make sure nobody sees him/her either)
Congratulations, you have a girlfriend/boyfriend. I mean sure itās not yours but thatās not what weāre aiming for, right?
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