Nothing is worse than seeing a good person you like end up with someone who isn’t good for them.
It’s something that happens to all of us at some point, we take whatever good qualities we see in a person and just can’t see the bad ones underneath until it’s too late, and the relationship ends in pain. It’s awful to see people go through that.
So true man. Like that teacher in The Perks of Being a Wallflower said: “We accept the love we think we deserve.”
And usually, people shoot waaaaaay too low.
Oftentimes people get into a relationship just to be in a relationship. They only find out later that they don’t even like their girlfriend/boyfriend. There’s a fine line between waiting long enough to actually get to know someone, and waiting too long.
She… probably doesn’t want to pursue a relationship with you. If she liked you, she’d probably admit to it after you had. The only thing you can do now is be blunt and ask her if she shares feelings for you, and if not move on.
I… really want to be wrong about this. You don’t know how much so. I’m so sorry…