Aight, the being homeschooled explains everything.
I was homeschooled as well, in a conservative Christian area (which I assume is pretty close to the scenario you're in), so I know quite a bit about the mentality most homeschoolers have. Simply put, unless it's done right, homeschooling doesn't prepare you for real world social situations.
In that subculture you're views are appropriate, so I won't judge, and if you're happy with it, stick to it. However, I don't think advice from that mindset will be helpful to anyone outside the homeschool community. Too many miscommunications, like what the definition of dating is, will make things more difficult.