Yeah I always wear shades outside and sometimes inside.
WHOA 
Might get to see her tomorrow⌠probably not until Sunday though
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Boi you never get anywhere until you try. I figured that out. Letâs do this!
And by we I mean you, with us rooting for you from a very safe and comfortable distance.
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I just meant idk if Iâll get the chance to talk to her today
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Well if you do, go for it!
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Yup. I will. Next time I see her will be early in the morning so I wonât be thinking straight which would be a good time to do it
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AAAAAAAAAND⌠SHE GHOSTS ME!!!
Slow clap goes here. Thank you.
Screw life.
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Wdym? Idk the hip lingo
Ouchie⌠Thatâs a feelsbadman, assuming you mean what I think you mean
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She might just be busy, or an inconsistent texter. I wouldnât assume sheâs avoiding you unless enough information is present.
That said, if that type of information is present, Iâm deeply sorry and hope you have a quick recovery period.
Let me just go on record and say that if she is ghosting you, youâre not missing out on much. I donât care who it is, if someone lacks the confidence and sincerity to be honest about everything and anything from the start, theyâre not good for anything long term and are probably completely unreliable.
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I got asked out at summer camp last week. By a cute girl Iâve known forever. But I liked someone else. So I said no. The regertsssâŚ
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Hit her back up and take her up on it. Keep chasing unicorns and youâll miss out on things that ARE real and possible.
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Well another thing is idk if she likes me or likes the idea of having a bf.
EDIT: i also have to ask a friend of hers to send her my number cuz I donât have it. I gotta get SnapchatâŚ
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Iâd say that before you take Tarvaaxâs (actually pretty good) advice, reflect a bit to see if you have at least some feelings for her(which Iâd assume you do if youâre having regrets). If you donât think you do, donât be in a relationship just for the feeling of being in a relationship, since that rarely ends well. It wouldnât be a good idea to lead someone on, only to eventually have to break their heart.
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Well she didnât respond for several days, and then left me on âreadâ yesterday afternoon.
But your advice is solid. I hate it that people donât think about the long-term before they jump into something. If you can fall out of like/love with someone in a month and a half after you start a relationship, somethingâs definitely wrong. Iâll stay single for now.
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Iâve been through that. What I did was wait a few days and not worry about it, and then send a message when I had something interesting to talk about. Just be casual and patient.
Some people are just busy people, or have a bunch of friends.
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Yknow how sometimes your subconscious will worry about things that you know are very unlikely to happen but you canât stop worrying about it? Iâm worried sheâll be so upset over my ignorance and stupidity in rejecting her that sheâll kill herself. I highly doubt itâd happen, but Iâm subconsciously worried about it.
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So Iâve been reading in this topic for quite awhile now and I think itâs about time I post something here seeing as I donât feel like being that guy that only reads about others problems and not doing anything else productive.
About 2 years ago when I started gymnasium(The Swedish equivalent to the later years of high school.) I started talking with this girl in my class via Snapchat since I had received her profile via a friend, we talked for some days and I began liking her more and more. Unfortunately things didnât workout and she rejected me(Iâm not gonna go in to detail about this for reasons). I can see how things ended up the way they did and that those reason have to do with me being a total noob at relationships and the fact that Iâm quite shy around girls in general which is just great.
Now after having been through this I can say that there are several factors I could improve upon and if I were to meet someone else I find interesting, attractive or whom I like for other reasons I should try to improve on these fields if it is going to workout.
Anyways Hope itâll will workout for you in your lives.
//Tarkur
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I think Iâm stress eating over this⌠I cannot stop eating today
At this point, you should make an effort to contact her and make sure sheâs fine. Get some reassurance, and possibly talk about how youâve felt lately.
If youâre worried, you care. If you care, somethingâs there (whether it be a friendly attraction or romantic one, though both tend to go hand in hand when you find someone youâll have good chemistry with), if somethingâs there: itâs time to talk with her.
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