The Relationship Topic

[_el]

Being a gentleman is so much more than nice.

*tips fedora

[justabioniclefan]

I’m amazed that you guys are still that seriously into Bionicle. No offense meant at all.

Lol that thing before was just a joke.
I don't bring Bionicle up, unless the opportunity is given lol.
Plus I only talk to male friends and family friends that are female. They already know my obsession.

[TheMightyObsidianDude]

My lord, this place is just the gift that keeps on giving

[Tarvaax]

I can talk about anything nerdy with my gal. She's pretty awesome!!

[Hafynx]

Off topic but just reading through and I'm pumped to see @Saxton still exists

Also reading @MataNuiNuva 's story feels bad, I feel like I can relate but I can't remember exactly why...

[MataNuiNuva]

I should write some songs about my experiences. I bet I could kill the Nirvana-unplugged-style.

[Winterstorm345]

4 years of actively trying to date... Not a single date. Rip

[EmperorDuckie]

Sorry bro. I’ve never been on a literal date. I’ve met up with mutual interest friends and stuff but they’ve either been not allowed to actually date or she was hanging out with friends somewhere and she invited me just to come see her

[justabioniclefan]

Not going to go to in depth. But I've figured what my problem is .
I'm what's called an ace. It basically means your not interested in anyone of the opposite gender. It's super annoying to have, and now i wish i was dead (jk).
Anyone else feel this way?

[MaximusPrimal]

I'm a problem in the exact opposite direction. When I find a girl I like I end up getting extremely attatched and invested knowing fully well the whole time that it will end in depression.

[Holi]

I'm what's called an ace.

so am I

[justabioniclefan]

What a coincidence

@MaximusPrimal There's a chance yours won't always end badly. A large chance. But then again, it all depends on the girl. If you don't mind me asking, do you currently have a girlfriend?

Me, on the other hand... I'm sort of lucky now that I think about it, as I can have a peaceful life collecting Lego in a dark room. Heaven, right? Like who even wants to have a loving wife and a happy family?

[MaximusPrimal]

There's a chance yours won't always end badly. A large chance. But then again, it all depends on the girl.

I know, but it's dificult to have a positive look on all this. I've had 4 major crushes I can think of. Only one ended in an actual relationship, and it was horrible. The other three just ended in heartbreak. Though luckily I'm still good firends with one of them.

If you don't mind me asking, do you currently have a girlfriend?

Unfortunately no. I am incredibly lonely.

[justabioniclefan]

Unfortunately no. I am incredibly lonely.

Most people reach a point where they need a relationship, not just friends.

The other three just ended in heartbreak.

Do you think it has anything to do with you and your partners age?
I don't know if you're in your 20's, but if you're still a teen, all I'm saying is maybe you and your partners need more experience. I'm not one to give good advice, but just trying to help.

[Runa]

Whelp, just got turned down by the girl I like. Oh well. I mean, I guess I kinda expected it.

I don't know, I just feel like I should feel something. Like, almost uncontrollably sad or something, but like, nothing. Actually almost a bit of laughter, like "Huh, guess I was right." Maybe I'd just already come to terms with it?

I don't know and honestly I'm legit kinda a little scared.

[meepinater]

Aw, man, that sucks.

[Runa]

That's part of what I mean. Like, I know it sucks, and it feels like I should be sad, but it's just like...nothing. Like "Huh, oh well." It actually kinda concerns me.

[meepinater]

It means that you either expected it, are really chill, or never really liked her in the first place.
Sometimes people think they like someone, but they dont as much as they thought.
Or it could be you had a crush on her for a while, but by the time you asked her, you kinda didn't like her as much.

[Runa]

I did like her and I'm pretty much a paranoid mess I mean for a bit there I was super scared she actually hated me, so it's probably the first option.

[MaximusPrimal]

That is exactly what I wish I could do. The last two crushes I've had I knew from the get go that it wouldn't work.

You know your track record. You know how this is going to end. Don't get attached because this will only end in more pain.

But no matter how hard I tried, I got attached, I found out it wouldn't work, which I really knew the whole time, and I couldn't get over it. I couldn't just shrug it off. Each time it happens I'm crushed for days or even weeks. Its the kind of hurt I see coming from a mile away but no matter what I do or how hard I try, the pain never gets better. It never lightens up. Each and every time it hurts so bad. Sometimes I try to convince myself that I don't need love. Thay I can live without it. That I can go on without a partner and be just happy, but all that does is make the pain worse.