Lets stay on topic, guys.
But thatâs not, eh, why do I care. None of itâs consistent anyway.
It does make sense. Bisexual refers to liking men and women; asexual refers to being attracted to neither.
I thought he meant he had no biological sex, like (awful example) the Hutts from Star Wars. Thatâs what that term has meant for ths last hundred or so years, no reason to change it now.
To be honest it just sounds really lonely.
I guess itâs just one of those words with multiple meanings. Like bark or buckle.
Anyways, back on topic, um⌠something something donât-have-a-girlfriend-joke. Thatâs about what 90% of my replies on this are anyways.
Most asexual people donât associate with the lgbt community. Even though itâs in that 57,002 letter acronym.
For me, it isnât a gender nor a sex (obviously), its just the lack of sexual attraction. Not a choice, just who I am.
Anyway, @meepinaterâs right lol
Iâd say most of the people here should take âer down a good 20%. Keep it casual yâ know? If you get yourself all worked up over getting a date or even talking to someone of the opposite, (Or maybe same sex, who knows) youâll make mistakes. Just calm down, youâre (Most likely) young, if what youâre currently going for isnât working, thereâll always be someone else, even though it may not seem like it. There are 7 billion people on this planet. Youâll find someone who appreciates you for you. It may be cliche but itâs true. Just be yourself, if that doesnât work, then it wouldnât have worked out anyway.
âSeven billion peopleâ out of which you will probably see about one million at most, and only talk to about a couple thousand. Not trying to be rude, just realistic.
I bought my girlfriend a 2DS with Ocarina of Time. Sheâs going to be happy when we see each other next week
A million people, even a thousand people, is still a huge sample size when the average person maintains close relationships to⌠5? and casual relationships to within 10-15?
âIm looking for 1 person. I donât really stay close to more than 5 people, but Im âfriendsâ with around 20 people. Who know around 20 people themselves. Who know around 20 people themselves. Who knowâŚâ etc etc.
The effect is cumulative. Winterstorm has the right idea, if you seem desperate or, god forbid, are people are going to notice that about you. It is not an attractive trait. Focus on your life and your wants/needs and eventually youâll find people who want to share time with you. If youâre going into it with the mentality of âI want to have a relationshipâ then chances are youâre failing right out the gate, because that almost never works (You probably wouldnât say yes to someone randomly walking up and going âHey, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, you dig?â).
The fact is that if youâre lonely, you have to make something happen to change that. Break out of the routine, try something new, go out and make friends. If all you can think about is how badly you âneedâ a relationship, then you arenât ready for one. A relationship is a two way street, and if youâre entering into one for selfish reasons, itâs already going to fail.
So take it from someone whoâs made their fair share of mistake: Focus on making your life something people want to be a part of, rather than try and make someone a part of it. Youâll find it becomes much much easier to meet people and * le gasp * get a relationship if youâre out doing things, rather than wondering why youâre single.
Besides, when you turn 18+ there are plenty of dating sites for people looking for an actual committed relationship.
That is possibly the best gift I could imagine giving anyone. I hope she likes Zelda.
Lucky girlâŚ
And unless you believe in a soul mate, there are probably >20 people youâve met that you could be happily married too!
Well, Iâm happy where I am. It can get lonely at times, but I have no need to actively pursue a relationship. But yes, desperate relationships do not last long, and eventually, if you put in the effort, youâll meet the one.
Kinda thought there would be posts in here for valentines day.
I hope everyone had a decent Valentineâs Day, whether you spent it with an SO, friends, family, or even just yourself
Hopefully it means everyone was busy doing something yesterday! I spent some time with my girl. We were cuddling and she made the cutest sound, it was so adorable.
I didnt really do anything.
School.
Homework.
I didnt have much of a chance to talk to the girl I like.
Which sucked.
My Valentineâs Day was uneventful. Not bad. Just no different than any other day.