I thought so. /inside joke
This isn't to belittle you or to discount your argument; I see many, many MANY shallow relationships out there. (Too many.) I see why this would turn people off, and frankly I respect that.
But IMO relationships shouldn't be about... Well, what people have made them to be. You should be able to explore the outside world with your significant other.
Having been in a relationship with a wonderful girl... Well, woman now, for the past 2 and a half years, I can say I wouldn't change anything about her. I mean, not only is she physically attractive, but also listens and understands me and I'm able to reciprocate that. Plus we find a lot of fun things to do together. So I guess if I was to say what's "ideal," it's someone who's really open to things, really trusting and patient and caring, and who isn't... Well.. Uptight. Is game to go do whatever and have fun with a lot of things. I hesitate to say "chill" or "cool", but I can't think of another word. So, I guess like a best friend, but with more than that.
what can I say, I'm a hopeless romantic
EDIT: @Helryx08 I don't see anything in the rules about that... Might you be referring to the infamous "Talking to Women" topic? That was closed for entirely different reasons.
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