Just to put this out there…
I agree that this is probably true.
And I also feel that myself and Gilahu have diverged in opinion in the last few hours.
My ‘issue of the day’ is now convincing people that people who don’t like their headcanons being invalidated aren’t idiots for thinking so. This is no longer about persuading people that the contests should end because of this. I’m just tired of people not understanding on a fundamental level what the headcanon debate comes down to.
We’ve run into this debate time and time again, and I doubt I’m alone in feeling alienated from the community because people fail to understand (and in some cases, empathise with) our perspective. We now even have Keksalot resorting to borderline bannable behaviour because (giving him the benefit of the doubt) he presumably thinks our perspective is so untenable that it warrants that.
I will try one last time to sum up what the headcanon debate is all about, using an example I’ve used before:
Suppose you played Skyrim and built an elaborate backstory for your female Argonian Dragonborn, and when TES6 comes along, Bethesda confirms through character dialogue that the Dragonborn was a male Nord. All those hours you spent playing Skyrim and building a backstory are, you feel, now invalidated - because you put so much time and passion into your character, who you treated as the next best thing to canonical.
The reason Bethesda don’t canonise really anything about their protagonists is because they know how much people get invested in their headcanons.
Now the canon contests are not totally analogous here. We know Helryx isn’t male or is a lizard, but people who build headcanons do decide smaller things like mask shape, armour, etc. But these are still things people care about. And for those that built their headcanons because they assumed they would never get a canon depiction: they are completely entitled to feel disheartened when the contests come around and another design wins. Some (perhaps most) people who have great passion for their headcanons can learn to live with this, but it will always cause some measure of distress. And some people, like me, can’t just say “well this is my Helryx and I say she’s canon”. We want to abide by canon because that’s our passion: to respect and flesh out canon.
You can’t persuade me, Gilahu, or some others that this is an unreasonable way of interacting with canon. Look at the example I gave for the Elder Scrolls games and you’ll see what I mean. Please just respect the fact that new canon content does cause distress, and it’s more than enough to make some people feel disheartened by the idea of canon contests.
I will learn to live with my headcanons being undone. If the last few months have told you anything, it’s that I’m not unreasonable. I’ve played devil’s advocate for the opposing side many times. And I’ve conceded to things which have been overruled. Just be empathetic and respectful, as I have always done the same.
Hey wait a minute