probably because the elementary schoolers of some of our teenage years have grown up to become the current generation of teenagers but have maintained their visual identity
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elaborate please
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Mineyās genuine first reaction: my maaaaan less gooooo
Treat 'em right, good sir
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i think i have become aesthetically attracted to someone
iām too selfish to try anything though
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Make a building out of them
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What is aesthetically attracted? Does it just mean attracted by looks or is my 60s brain coming back
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Like, I like the way this person looks, I think theyāre pretty but I donāt feel emotionally attracted
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Do you happen to be demisexual? I consider myself as such and I find myself making that distinction a lot
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Ah. I think I know what you mean - something more along the lines of this person wears clothes well?
I guess you can try to get to know 'em, who knowsā¦ might be a cool one
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Iād extend it to someone who naturally has an appealing face and/or figure. I can process that information about someone, but it takes more than that to motivate me to desire a relationship with them. (It can motivate me to pursue a friendship with them, and depending on what I learn about them from that friendship I may end up developing feelings for them.)
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is starting a relationship for more than someoneās looks not the standard?
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For me it is, looks may help sometimes. Iād think that the people here think the same way, though, I just brought that up because I was confused what āaesthetically attractedā was.
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Well, this was quite the post to stumble upon by accident.
This is very accurate to how I have been feeling recently. Nine. Nine girls Iāve liked and been able to interact with, nine failures, all either in a relationship or not interested. It did feel like I am not meant to succeed for a while. And yet, here I am, still desiring a relationship and thinking about asking out another. Maybe Iām just too stubborn to give up.
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Hilarious that you remind me of this old thing.
Iāve been in a wonderful loving relationship for about the last four and a half months now, and it has been amazing. Itās been long distance, which has been rough. But itās all been more than worth it. And best of all, weāre going to get to see each other in just a month from now!
Moral of the story
Love is out there. Sometimes even in the places youād never expext.
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Oh yeah, this is a thing. Iāve got my 5 year anniversary coming up soon. Probably gonna propose soonish
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Ayyeee congrats!
Ayyyeee congrats!
After I got out of my last relationship 5 or 6 or 7 years ago (stopped counting when I stopped caring) I made a conscious decision to just wrap up any issues I had before I jumped into the next, and along the way discovered that I really just wanted to be happy doing whatever I wanted. So I am in a very happy and stable and loving relationship with me and we are so in love we agree on everything
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Still looking for Mrs. Cronk.
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Same here, but different reasons.
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I am still on my own, probably for the best
Came to the realisation that Iām the problem so Iāll focus on making myself better before I try anything again
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Update: and now I am up to ten.
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