That is all I would ask of you. Ultimately I want you both to be happy, but as someone who has been in both of your shoes, I understand both perspectives and the issues that crop up for both belief systems in this scenario.
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Iām in a similar situation with the girl Iām interested in, except instead of different religions or one of us not being religious, weāre members of the same religion but different denominations. The differences arenāt huge though, except one that wouldnāt rly affect a relationship
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This shouldnāt be too bad, if the differences really are as minor as you say. I think the largest issue you could face is one of you believing in free will, and the other predestination, as both beliefs carry over into major theological differences. I would say that if you can both be supportive of each otherās differences and realise that because weāre all human and prone to mistakes or logical hiccups, none of us will ever be 100% right in what we believe. Neither will any institution. Understanding this and exploring how your theology and her theology developed historically could be the key to ensuring the relationship between the two of you could become something beautiful.
To sum it up: tolerance, understanding, and love are the keys to every relationship.
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Dang that was great to hear thank you brother. If the staff doesnāt mind, the disagreement is over whether you can lose salvation once youāve recurved (Iām southern baptist and sheās church of God I believe. Itās not in the church title so idk)
I can see that one being a bit of a troublesome issue later on in a relationship, Iāll pm you and we can continue this there.
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Ok thanks
Man, now I want some eggs.
(Itās āequally yokedā, btw.)
Reminds me of the girl I mentioned from last summer.
Oh. Iām seeing her again in a week. This is going to be fun.
Without delving too much into religious discussion - in my last two crush scenarios (youāll find them further in the topic), I held back from making a move because I didnāt know what either of them really believed on that front. If they didnāt, I wouldnāt have wanted to pursue a relationship. I can imagine that, if she does harbor feelings for you, she might have the same dilemma.
If possible, Iād suggest that - if you reach the point where you feel like explaining your feelings toward her - youāre prepared to iron out those religious differences, and be prepared if she decides those differences mean you canāt be together.
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Might as well elaborate for yaālls entertainment.
(Iām from Texas so Iām legally allowed to say yaāll)
So she went to that camp I was at last summer. Didnāt think much about it because the olā Head was in the clouds (Iām sure you know how that worked out 
) but yeah, so she left camp last year with a boyfriend (that looked like a rat I might add) and they broke up a while ago, from what her best friend told me, due to not being able to see each other often enough (from his point of view). Anyways, the Insta works its magic, a comment here, a comment there, a funny story, and a DM slide, and bang we are in business.
Side note she called me silly goose (?) yesterday so thatās gotta be good amiright.
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So you like her or itās a mutual thing
I think itās mutual but neither of us have said it yet
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Oh ok
OK, Iām not sure if I have brought this up, but I am currently seeing someone long distance. 3000km might I add, while Iām away for the summer, sometimes just texting it feels like sheās losing interest, thoughts?
Also, Iāve been away for about as long a time as I was home while we were together, and Iām not sure where weāre at with it. Iām just a little lost mah dudes
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Is it only long distance while youāre away?
I just got out of a long distance thing a month or so ago. There were several points where I thought she was losing interest. Itās really hard to tell
Yeah, but Iām going to be gone for months
From my experience, girls lose interest very easily. If sheās not super into it, leave it be. Youāre better off not worrying about someone who no longer likes you.
Hopefully she does still like you though.
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Do you videochat? That might help.
Arenāt mixed messages fun. She seemingly told her friend that I like her and I canāt tell what that means
Now it depends of her friends.
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Well idk much but ik a lot more ppl will probably find out based on the friend