DOUBLE Exactly. I was talking to one of my teachers in a chat room with some fellow students about our goals and dreams, and the teacher said “Well as some of you know, I started dating my now-husband when I was 14 and a few months into our relationship we decided to marry.” We were all shocked.
Me: That was an unnerving answer.
Other Student: O.o hides
Teacher: Lol, that it took six years for us to marry?
Me: No, the fact that you were fourteen. I’m fourteen and that rattles me.
Teacher: Lol, at that age I took it way too seriously. I’m glad that I was protected from bad choices lol
I just sat there thinking “Yea ya done did take it seriously.”
Actually, It’s legal in Utah, and I believe Louisiana and Alabama in America to get married at the age of fourteen, with parental consent. I could never understand why.
Just Ignore this because I was completely wrong about the point of the previous comment.
[spoiler]I don’t think that you got the point. She didn’t marry at age 14. She got married at age 20. She just decided when she was 14 that she would marry her now-husband when it was legal to do so.
Also, that sounds creepy to get married at 14.[/spoiler]
No. A “Date” would be you going and setting up a time to meet. And I’m sure someone will bring up long distance dating but that really shouldn’t be considered a date. You don’t really know a person still you’ve spoken with them face to face. And I would put playing video games over the internet beneath even just chatting. A date should also require the understanding from both parties that it is a date, as many women and men can see what one may consider a date as something completely unrelated. Not to mention, by your logic, if I just sent an email to someone I fancied, all of a sudden I should be considered in a relationship with them, which is false.
@meepinater No problem man. If you really like this girl, find out if she likes you and then ask her to a coffee shop or something similar and just talk.
Well, they didn’t pan out. I was once told that every relationship ends in either marriage or a breakup, and I realized it was true. If you really feel someone might be the person for you, you should try and put in the effort to meat them. I mean, if the relationship really is a success, you’ll be spending much if not all of your life with them, so you should probably meet them.
So I had a relationship. It was long distance, and lasted just under 3 months. It seems kinda ridiculous, but I really did love them, and the reason it ended has really made me hate myself. It is fascinating how an experience can be so positive, and so painful at the same time